“Dear Tom,
My family and I want to express our thanks for all your help you gave us during this sad period in our lives.
I know you don’t want any thanks but you were always there when we needed you. You are a caring person and when we have a problem we feel we can come to you with it.
You help to lift the load off of our shoulders and that gives us a peace of mind.
Thank you for being there. God Bless you for all you have done.”